Sticky Tape Sex

I’ve been keeping track of what’s happened to the nice guys revolution thanks to Marcus and Charmaine.  It’s always going to be an age old argument and it’s like arguing about how toilet paper should hang (I personally hang mine under).  Fact is everyone who commented and contributed their thoughts are neither right or wrong.  We’re all going to end up in relationships where we’ll have the good times and the bad times.  Learning from each one and collecting memories along the way.  Making sure that we don’t make the same mistakes twice and knowing when to walk away or keep someone for life. 

Everyone can talk in an instance,  about what they want in a relationship and their ideal partner.  However what are people’s thoughts on sex and it’s relevance in todays society?  I only ask that now because I’ve realised that sex to me is just a physical form of enjoyment.  I’ve talked about my first time and like I said it was great, but the many times after that, I’m not sure anymore. 

A good friend of mine a few years back talked to me about my relationships and how close I was to each person that I went out with.  Turns out that each relationship were never fulfilling and could be deemed as physical attraction.  This brought on the discussion of sex and how she views it.  She began by saying that when you get close to someone and being able to share a beautiful moment through sex; is like cutting a new piece of sticky tape and placing it on your partners skin.  The first time you use that tape, its adhesiveness and bond is quite strong, removing it will cause some minor pain. When you take that same piece of tape however and place it on someone else’s skin, it may still stick but it’s adhesiveness is not as strong as the its first time.  Over time, shifting the tape to numerous people, will cause it to lose it’s bond and adhesiveness.  Which can be put exactly the same as sex, the more you have it with multitudes of partner, the less meaning it will have with the person you choose to do it with.

I never really understood what she meant up until now, it’s made a whole lot of sense and it’s time for me to somehow get a new piece of tape from the tape dispenser and start over once again.  Thing that worries me though is; is it possible to start over again?