The art of ….

Me: Do you do it Dean?
Dean: Yeah dude for sure
Me: Morgan what about you?
Morgan: Yeah dude of course
Me: Dave?
Dave: No comment too personal
Me: How about you Mikey?
Mike: *gives out bashful laugh*
Me: Aidan?
Aidan: No fucken way dude

Apparently I’m one of the few guys that do it, but in my circle of peers,  I’ve asked them all, and the majority seem to as well.  There’s only a rare few that I know who hate to do it, find it a bit icky and just avoid it at all cost.   I am talking about pleasing a woman via oral sex.

When I first got a glimpse of oral sex (thanks to the always handy porn), I just thought of it as merely kissing a womans love here and there.  I mean when you’re young and you’re watching porn of course, you’ll believe everything you see.  But as usual there’s always a big difference with what you see in porn and when you actually get to do it.  Seriously though, what woman likes to get cum on her face, while wearing clear high heels in bed????

I remembered my first encounter at getting a chance to please a woman orally.  Mind you this was way before I had lost my virginity and was the time that I was getting familiar with a womans body.  I can tell you that it was not succesful seeing as her reaction was somewhat dull.  It probably felt awkward to her at that time and I thank her for her patience.  Having gained her trust to see her beautiful naked body and then having me try out what I saw in the porn videos is a tad bit odd.

Down and out, I made a vow that the next time I would get the opportunity, I would definitely be able to please a woman regardless.

Hours were spent reading my sisters Cleo and Cosmopolitan magazines.  Thankfully I had a good imagination and not to mention a very good visual memory.  So the next time I did get my chance, you could say I was rather cocky and just gave it my all. 

There was no reaction until some minutes later when a soft moan came out her mouth, I did right and I still wanted to continue with my newfound knowledge.  She later confessed that it was nice and good to see that I knew what I was doing.

I still have to say to this day that it is still a learning process, since every girl that you will meet, not all will have the same response.  After all we are all unique and how boring would it be if you could do the same thing over and over again.  Which is why if anyone needs a few pointers then let me guide to here and also here.  I don’t think I’ll be seeing comments here since it’s a subject that doesn’t get talked about too much.