Having lunch with my old co-workers every Thursday is always good.  Our conversations are always filled with wisdom and laughter, the company is great and to top it off the choices where we choose to eat is just as excellent.  However today Mr S, did make a groundbreaking comment that I never took note of.  He was saying that even though you have a girlfriend and may have been together for 3-5 years, it still means that you’re single, because you’re not married or anything and as far as the government is concerned, you’re still a single person.  I guess that’s why the marriage process helps to unify the two people together and that you can then tick the married status box.