Yessir, it’s business time, not to that extent though and it’s been sometime since I’ve had “business time” haha.  Being on the topic of business time, for those of you that didn’t know, I’ve already started my new job and so far things are going great.  I couldn’t be more happier and it seems like a good fit for me right now.  But in the back of my mind, I am always weary and keeping myself in check, that I have a job to do and can never slack off.  If you ask me I can almost relate starting a new job to like your first dates with a girl or guy and wanting to show that person that you have the right stuff to make it work in a relationship.  Well that’s probably more so the interview process, when you do go out on dates and get to know each other better.  How you got to that date can vary, from getting hooked up by your friends, internet dating, meeting up randomly at a club or while being out and about.  We’ll call that the initial stages which is the equivalent to handing in your resume and application, and seeing what chances you have to getting interviewed.

Finally once you have been succesful in the prior stages, you got yourself a relationship, and it takes time and commitment to make it work and worthwhile, just like your current job or schoolwork depending on your age.  This is what I am currently doing right now, just getting to know the details of my job and committing myself so that for the future I have set myself a foundation and can set myself off to a solid start.  Like any commitments, the key ingredients are patience and understanding.  Trust me having those two gets you a long long way in life in any circumstances.

However failing that, you can always leave your job and start all over again, and I am sure you have figured it out that this would be considered the divorce.  Then we start all over again and are back to square one.  Pretty scary stuff when you’ve just come out of a divorce and just starting out again.  Here I am though, at my new job and eager to make this last as long as I can.  Finger crossed, knock wood and all that jive.