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Better days

Don’t feel like you’re out there all alone,
You gotta keep moving on
Don’t give up Sunshine
There will be better days

Trip of a lifetime

Yep, I still have all the memories and good times that we had in 2008, and it will probably go down as the best birthday ever for you right?

Strange habits at work

Remember good ol’ Finch from American Pie?  Turns out that Finch and I are similiar and share the same habit.  No, no, no, we’re not talking about dating and sexing mothers of our friends, I’m talking about the bathroom habit where he prefers to do his bodily business at home.  I’ve always been like that and doing a piss is just fine but I refuse doing the number two in any public bathroom even if it’s at work. The only time I will, is when I know I won’t be able to hold it in any longer and just go to a handicapped bathroom or a time it when the bathrooms are not in peak hour use.  I’ve had encounters that have made it so damn awkward, that I loathe doing a shit in the toilets at work or where ever it may be that I need to do a crap that is not my own place.

I hate it especially when I have no choice but to take the middle cubicle, because the outside cubicles are loaded.  What happens next is like a symphony orchestra, only not so sweet and soothing but more like torture, as you hear the bass and trombones kick in.  I start gagging and frothing at the mouth, because the smell is so overpowering and it just feels that I was raped by two guys with their splendors of the ass.  Worse, is when everyone at the same time has finished their business, and you all walk out, only to realise that it’s someone you know and the awkwardness of each face is priceless.  Another caper is when I take the outside cubicle and think it’s all safe and sound, and then some dude, for what bizarre reason, I have no idea.  Chooses to take the middle cubicle and does his business there right next to mine, when the freaking other cubicle is free.  It’s almost as bad as brushing someone’s hand and the awkwardness there is the same as how I feel, when dude takes a dump right next to me.

Another awkward moment is when I want to do my business but can’t because it’s all silent and you don’t want people to hear how your trumpet blows.  So basically I just wait until a sound is made, like someone ripping off toilet paper or (what I do for other people) do a piss and make sure it’s loud!

Lately though my system has been good to me and because I’ve got my timings right, I do end up doing my own business at home, and I make sure that throughout the day I avoid dairy products or anything that will give me a laxative effect.  That’s all for today and thanks for listening to my thoughts on how I do my best to maintain being a regular guy …..

Sister’s Halloween Costume

Too Cute!!

I found your blog

I found your blog and think that you need to update it since it seems to have been a month or so now since your last entry.  Although it’s a coincidence that you stopped blogging when the sun starting shining once again in your world, dear sir!!

I have decided to aid you in your quest of AFK blogging, please accept the sign below as it indicates that you will one day, blog once more!

There goes my baby

It definitely feels good to have someone that I can call my very own.  Somebody that you can look forward to, when the day is long at work, and you really just want to unwind at home with her by your side.  She makes me feel like I am at home and I love the fact that she’ll listen and talk freely.  Maybe it’s the fact that this time, I’ve found a girl who I consider sincere and unlike the majority of the other girls, not a headcase and I didn’t need to come in and do some sort of rescuing like I usually do.

Squeaks did point that out, that a lot of the girls that I do end up having a relationship with, seem to have some sort of personal issues and it’s me that normally comes in and puts on the cape to try and save the day. This, however, didn’t need any heroic acts or having to provide a shoulder to cry on.  She has been around for a while but there’s been some misunderstandings on both side, and instigated from people that I should have never listened to.  Hence why I never took interest or looked at her in that way.  I love things that happen unexpectedly and it’s a nice surprise to have it where it is now.
You see two years ago, I was asked by a lot of people to consider meeting her and take her out to get to know her better.  There was a dilemma though because at that same time, my heart belonged to someone else and I never thought of doing that girl wrong.  So I abandoned all thoughts of this girl and focused on the one who I was chasing for a long, long time.  I’m sure anyone who has been chasing for something so long and finally got it, would not give it up so easily, even if the girl was smack bang in front of you.

So now we’re here in the present day, things didn’t exactly work out with the lady back then and I’m sure she knows why.  I would love to have written a more detailed blog post on why I had to let go and believe me, I’ve come very close to doing it.  However, because of the great circle of friends that I am surrounded by, they prevented me from doing it, saying that I would only jeopardise everything and be a total home wrecker.

Getting back on track now, it was just one fateful night where I was with Mish and Chuey for the Nara Festival and chose to go to the Moon festival afterward.  It was there that I saw her and we talked for a bit, and I decided that I would give her a lift home since it’d be unfair for a family friend to go way down south then back home in the north side.  From there, we met up regularly and talked.  The cherry on the cake was the week of my birthday where all things fell into place and I knew then, that she would be my lady.

I think that’s the general spill of it all, and this blog was for someone who felt that they missed out and wondered what the hell was happening.  Doesn’t help that I don’t talk much on MSN and anyone messaging me, will get a response of  “Chillin’ with wifey brb”.  Now that you know, aren’t you happy?? YAY!!!

No flashback fridays for today, instead it’ll just be a song that I been playing over and over again and no doubt Mish is slowly getting sick of it.

Together

It’s been a short time already, but by what I have seen, I am already falling fast for her.  She’s come to my Grand finals basketball game, she’s made me dinner, and she looks after me pretty well.  I haven’t remembered anyone doing this for me since … , like AGES!!  We talk openly about anything, and I’m able to be myself around her, that’s pretty much the best part of it all.

However I can’t help but feel that this is it, and that when I’m with her, it’s a done deal.  What makes me freak out a little is that, I never anticipated her to be my one and only.  Out of nowhere though, there she was, after 8 years, it just happened out of the blue.  Whatever happens from here onwards, I don’t mind as long as I have her by my side!!

Kitchen, Bed, Shower

The Dark Knight eerrr Cat …